3 Nephi 26:1-12 And he did expound all things...

3 Nephi 26:1-12
What did Jesus teach the people in this chapter? Why didn't Mormon write it on these plates? Where is it written? What do we need to do to be able to see it?

What do you think Jesus taught the people? Write your own verse describing what Jesus might have taught the people. Little children can draw a picture. Do you think we might already have some of the teachings through modern day prophets? Or are they teachings we have yet to receive?

3 Nephi 25:5-6 He shall turn the hearts of the fathers to the children...

3 Nephi 25:5-6
Have each person draw a family picture as you discuss these questions:

What does it mean to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children and the hearts of the children to the fathers? Why is it important? What can children do to accomplish this? What are you personally doing to accomplish this?

3 Nephi 24:8-11 Will a Man Rob God?

3 Nephi 24:7-11
Search: Have someone look up the word "tithe" or "tithing" in the dictionary. Why do you think most other churches believe that members don't need to donate 10%? "Rob God" is pretty strong language to describe someone who doesn't pay their tithing. Do you think such strong language is justified? How would you feel to be accused of robbing God?

Have everyone draw a picture of v10: The windows of heaven open and blessings so great there is not room to receive them pour out. An incredible promise. Have each person share how he/she has been blessed by obedience to the law of tithing.

3 Nephi 20:11,13-16,29-33 The Savior Quotes Isaiah

background: Who was Isaiah?

The prophets speak the word of God. Why does the Savior need to quote the prophets yet again?

Isaiah writes of several different time periods (his own day, the time of Christ, the latter days, the millenium). These verses are the words of the Savior and Isaiah. What time period(s) is he writing about here? List each verse of the reading here, and then indicate next to it which time period he is referring to.

3 Nephi 20:2-9 Jesus administers the sacrament

Background question: What's going on here? Where were they? What has Jesus been doing?

Draw a picture of Jesus passing the sacrament to the people.

How do you think it was done? He probably didn't use little plastic cups like we use today. What do you think Jesus used to pass the water? Do you think they used metal trays like we do today? Do we have to use the plastic cups and metal trays to pass the sacrament? Does it have to be bread and water?

What does the bread represent? What does the water represent? Why do we take the sacrament?

A Little Background

I've found that it helps a great deal to give a little background for the verses we read and let the kids ask a few questions. They seem to comprehend the reading much better and pay more attention.

1 Nephi 3:22-26 Lehi's Gold and Silver and the Brass Plates

Storytelling (see instructions - open in a new window): Have a child tell the story of how Laman, Lemuel, Sam, and Nephi went home to get their father's treasures so they could buy the brass plates with them. Gold and the Brass Plates 

1 Nephi 3:11-14 Storytelling: Laman and the Brass plates

Storytelling (see instructions - open in a new window): Have a child tell the story of Laman and the brass plates.

Storytelling

Increase your kid's listening storytelling ability, comprehension, ability to articulate ideas, and knowledge of the Book of Mormon all at the same time by having them retell these popular Book of Mormon stories to the family. If your child is familiar with the story, read the verses after your child retells it. Otherwise, read the verses and then have your child tell the story.

3 Nephi 20:1 Do not cease to pray in your heart

What did the Savior command the people in this verse?

He is going to administer the sacrament, and it would be inappropriate to be praying aloud during the sacrament. Others would not be able to focus on the sacrament. On a piece of paper, have each person list (or draw a picture of) 3-5 situations where it would be inappropriate to pray aloud. Then discuss what they've written.

How can you pray in a situation where it would be inapropriate to speak? Does a prayer always need to contain words? How could you pray without using words?

3 Nephi 19:24-36 ...nevertheless they did not cease to pray

On a piece of paper or on a whiteboard, write down as you read the words that are used to describe the people as they prayed. If you need a hint, look for the answers to these questions: What was their attitude? What was there physical appearance? What sort of words did they pray? Did they take breaks? Jesus said he had never seen so much of something among the Jews. What was it? How does it describe their hearts?

Why did they pray so much? What was their attitude as they prayed? How can you pray with the same attitude?

3 Nephi 19:8-14 Filled with the Holy Ghost and with Fire

Draw a picture of the events in these verses. If possible, draw them in color, to really bring out the contrast of the fire/light and the water with the multitude in the middle. Painting would be fun if you can make time. But if not, at least try colored pencils, markers, or crayons.

Do you think they were really surrounded by fire? Remember that fire was the only source of light they had other than the sun. If Nephi were to describe any other light, it would be in terms of a light source he knew about. So it would have to be in terms of either the sun or fire. How did Joseph Smith describe the light he saw, both during the first vision and when Moroni visited him?

What do you think was the source of the fire-like light that surrounded the multitude?

What does it mean "they were filled with the Holy Ghost and with fire?"

3 Nephi 19:1-7 It was noised abroad concerning Jesus

Draw a picture of what you think the multitudes looked like after they separated into twelve bodies so the disciples could teach them. What do you think the 12 disciples taught the people? Write down at least 3 things.

Why do you think the people worked all night to spread the word that Jesus was here?

3 Nephi 18:15-23 Pray Always

Commit verses 19 & 20 to memory. Here are some ideas for memorizing the verses:

• If you have little ones who can't read yet, have the reader read a phrase, and then have everyone repeat it. Go over the phrase several times until you can do it without reading. Then move on to the next phrase until you can repeat the verses without looking. Have one of the children lead and everyone repeat once they can do it themselves.
• Have everyone write the verses several times.
• Write the verse on a white board or somewhere where everyone can see it. Read it together (or read and repeat as above) several times. Each time, cover or erase sections of text before you read the verse.

How is it possible to pray always? How can you pray while you are busy doing chores or homework or something else? If we can pray always in our hearts, why do we need to kneel to pray every morning and evening?

3 Nephi 18:12-14 Build on the Rock

Build a "house" on a hill of sand: Use your sandbox or a nearby park or just the dirt in your backyard (you could buy play sand and put it in a box - if you have time and money to go out and buy some). Let the kids form the sand or soil into a soft mound. Let them build their house usingblocks, sticks, cardboard, paper, or something else that's ok to get wet. The goal is to make the house fall when the sand washes away, so something like Legos may not work. Pour enough water over the house and sand that the mound of sand/soil washes away and the house tips or falls. Now try it on a solid surface, preferably a large rock if available, but concrete, tile, or something similar will also work.

What happened? How can we liken this to our lives? What will happen if you build on the sand?What happens if you build on a rock? What does the sand represent in Jesus' parable? What does the rock represent?

3 Nephi 18:12-14 Build on the Rock

Sing "The Wise Man and the Foolish Man." Children's Songbook #281. Do the actions if you know them.

Why would building a house on a rock be better than building on the sand? What does the Savior mean by "building your house on my rock?" What is my rock? What is the sand?

3 Nephi 18:1-11 Sacrament

Have the little ones draw a picture of Jesus and the Disciples (the apostles) administering the bread and wine to the multitude. Have the big kids search these verses for words and phrases that match or are similar to the sacramental prayers. How many can they find?

The ordinance of the sacrament is too sacred to try to act it out or to replay the events in these verses.

Why did Jesus use wine? Why do we use water? What does the bread represent? Why do we need to remember the Savior's body? What does the wine or water represent? Why do we need to remember the Savior's blood?

3 Nephi 17:13-20 Eye Hath Never Seen...

Have family members draw a picture of the Savior kneeling to pray, surrounded by the little children closest to Him, and then the adults kneeling around the children. All are praying.

Why do you think the things that were prayed cannot be written? How would it have felt to be there? Why do you think Jesus prayed for the people?

3 Nephi 17:11,12,23-25 Behold Your Little Ones

Let each family member draw a picture of Jesus blessing the little children as described in these verses.

Why did Jesus have them bring forth their little children? Why did he weep? What blessings do you think He gave to the little children? Why would it be neat to see and be blessed by Jesus? Explain to the children that when they receive a priesthood blessing, it is by God's power, the same power by which Jesus blessed the little children in these verses.

3 Nephi 17:4-10 Jesus Heals the Afflicted

As a family, learn how to say a few things in sign language. Here's a good site to learn, or you can do a web search for sign language or American Sign Language: http://www.lifeprint.com/asl101/pages-layout/concepts.htm

Although some challenges are more obvious than others, everyone has challenges. What challenges do members of your family face?

Do you know anyone that is handicapped? How should we treat those who are handicapped?

3 Nephi 17:4-10 Jesus Heals the Afflicted

Try this classic handicap awareness exercises to help family members start to understand the challenges of living with a handicap:

1. Set up some chairs in random spots throughout the room. Blindfold someone and have them try to make their way from one side of the room to the other. Have a family member try it on one foot.
2. Have a family member try to write something while blindfolded.
3. Have one family member cover his ears while others talk softly. See if he can figure out what they're talking about by reading lips.

How do you think these people felt after Jesus healed them? Why do you think Heavenly Father allows people to have afflictions?

3 Nephi 17:1-3 Ponder on the Things which I have Said

Make a list of some things that are difficult to understand, either on a white board or on a piece of paper. Ideas might be scriptures in general, a specific scripture, math, science, a friend who is difficult, a brother or sister or friend who is mean, etc.

What 2 things did Jesus ask the people to do so they can better understand His words? How can we come to better understand the things that we've listed?

3 Nephi 15:16-24, 16:1-3 Other Sheep I have

Little ones: Draw a picture of sheep being led by a shepherd. Who is the shepherd? Who are His sheep? Why are they called sheep? What should you do to be called one of His sheep?

Big kids (scripture search): Use the topical guide, web search, and/or other resources to find out: Where in the new testament does Christ say He has other sheep? Are the people in Jerusalem and the people in the Americas the only sheep?

Who are the sheep of whom He speaks in chapter 16? What do you think He preached to them?

3 Nephi 14:24-27 The wise man and the foolish man

Sing the primary song "The wise man and the foolish man" from the primary songbook.

This is one of the few parables the Savior taught to the Nephites. What/who is the rock? What/who is the sand? List, either on the whiteboard or on a piece of paper, things you can do to build your house on the rock?

3 Nephi 14:6-11 Seek and ye shall find

What does it mean to "cast your pearls before swine?" How did Jesus exemplify this? Think about how he spoke to the Jewish leaders and Pilate. Then think about how he spoke to the multitudes who came to hear Him. What is the difference? You may want to read some of those passages to see the difference: John 18:19-24, 33-37. How are the Savior's words, tone, and attitude different between John 18 where he is speaking to the Jewish high priests and Pilate and 3 Nephi 14, where he is speaking to the people. How does that relate to Jesus' advice not to "cast your pearls before swine?"

What are we supposed to do? Does it mean we shouldn't share the gospel with those who don't have it? Why/why not? Do you think the Savior would refer to people as "swine" just because they don't have the gospel? Why/why not? Who then, is He calling "swine"?

How can the Savior promise that everyone who asks will receive, everyone that seeks will find, and everyone that knocks will have it opened? Is He talking about asking your neighbor for lots of money? Is He talking about seeking riches? What is He talking about asking, seeking, and knocking?

3 Nephi 14:12 The Golden Rule

Help your family to memorize verse 12. Why did Jesus say "for this is the law and the prophets?"

3 Nephi 14:1-4 Judge Not

Write down 3 situations recently where you judged or could have judged someone else. Is there anything you could have done better?

Is it possible to go through each day without passing judgment on others? How? What is a mote? A beam? Look them up with a dictionary or a web search if you're not sure.

3 Nephi 13:24 No Man Can Serve Two Masters

Commit this verse to memory.

Who are the two masters Jesus is referring to? Why can't we serve two masters? We might say we're serving Jesus and really be serving Satan. How is that possible?

3 Nephi 13:19-21 Where Your Treasure is

Have a treasure hunt. Hide something valuable for the children to find - a treat or something valuable to the family like a photo album. Write clues that will direct kids to another clue and finally after 3 or 4 clues, to the treasure. You can use simple directions like "15 steps to the north" or for older children, make it a riddle or cryptic message like "Up, down" (the next clue is hidden on the stairs).

What kind of treasure are these verses referring to? Gold and jewels?

Commit verse 21 to memory.

3 Nephi 13:16-18 That thou appear not unto men to fast

What is fasting? Why do we fast? These verses warn that fasters should not "disfigure their faces". Why? In the same manner, what are some other things we should avoid when fasting? (letting others know we are fasting except when necessary, complaining, saying "I'm hungry", bearing testimony about how much sacrifice it is to fast).

3 Nephi 13:5-15 After this Manner Pray Ye

In the church we often teach that there are 4 steps to prayer. What are they? (Address Heavenly Father, express gratitude, ask, close in the name of Jesus Christ, amen). Take the time to go over these steps with younger children. Older children too if you think they may need a refresher. How does the Lord's prayer in these verses compare to that 4 step pattern?

Should we use this exact prayer every time we pray? What is a "vain repetition?" Why should we pray in secret? Why then do we pray at church meetings? Why should we forgive others? If God knows what we need before we ask Him, why do we pray?

Late Nights

Some nights we don't get home until 10pm or later - well past the kids' bedtime. We want to get the kids to bed as soon as possible - especially if they have school in the morning. We like to use our time in the car to read scriptures and pray. We could keep a set of scriptures in the car and have the kids read those aloud. But then we have to turn the light on in the car, and then it's hard for the driver to see out the back. Instead, we've found that this is a great time to review some of the verses - including the Articles of Faith - we have memorized. We can all recite the verse together, or one of us will lead and everyone else repeat if not everyone knows the verse. After, we may discuss the verse.

This turns out to be a great use of time. We have a captive audience. There are fewer distractions for the kids than at home where they have all of their toys, videos, food, the dog, etc. There is a catch - many times some of the kids will fall asleep before we get finished because driving tends to make us sleepy.

3 Nephi 13:1-4 That Thine Alms May be in Secret

Your little ones probably don't know what the word "alms" means. Have those that are old enough look up the word (in the dictionary, Topical Guide, online, etc) and then try to explain it in their own words. Help your older kids teach the younger ones what it means.

Children rarely have the means to make donations themselves. But we can still liken the scriptures unto them with the following activity.

Have each child plan and do a "secret service". Have each of them think of something nice they can do in secret for someone else. Help them choose a time to do that service when they won't be discovered. Talk about each person's service next time you read scriptures and encourage them to continue to do "secret service". Explain that alms don't have to be money donations.

Why does Jesus want us to do our alms in secret? Some people do service or give money and let everyone know about it. Why? What is their reward? If you give in secret, what is your reward? Which would you rather have? Why?

3 Nephi 12:43-48

Commit verse 44 to memory.

In verse 45 it says, "that ye may be the children of your Father in Heaven". How so? Ask each person to think of one thing, good or bad, that might happen if you love your enemies.

Alternatively, draw a picture of what you can do to show love to people who may want harm you.

3 Nephi 12:38-42 Love Your Enemies

Commit verse 39 to memory.

What does this mean? Does it mean you should let others beat up on you without trying to defend yourself?

3 Nephi 12:13-16 Let Your Light Shine

Commit verse 16 to memory.

What does it mean to be the salt of the earth? What is the light that you have? What things can you do to let your light shine?

3 Nephi 12:1-12 Beattitudes

Have each person pick a verse and draw a picture of what the verse represents. Then have them explain their picture and the verse.

How do these verses show the Savior loves each of us?

3 Nephi 11:31-41 This is my Doctrine

Two verses are almost exactly the same. Can you find them? There are slight differences. Can you see the difference? Why do you think the Savior repeated his words?

3 Nephi 11:12-17 They Did Feel the Prints of the Nails

Draw a picture of the events that transpire in these verses.

How do the prints of the nails prove that He is "the God of Israel, the God of the whole earth?" Why do you think He allowed everyone of the multitude to feel His wounds, not just a few?

3 Nephi 11:28-30 Contention is of the Devil

Commit verse 29 to memory.

Does this mean that disagreeing with someone is of the devil?

3 Nephi 11:1-8 Behold My Beloved Son

Draw a picture of the events in these verses:

The people are gathered at the temple discussing the events that have transpired. They hear a voice but cannot understand at first. The Savior descends from heaven.

Whose voice was it? Why couldn't the people understand the voice at first? Why did Heavenly Father refer to Jesus as "My Beloved Son?" Do you think Heavenly Father would call you my beloved son or daughter? Why or why not?

3 Nephi 10:1-10

Little ones: Draw a picture of a hen gathering her chicks.

Big kids: Do some research on this topic. Why, how does a hen gather her chicks?

What does Jesus mean by "how oft have I gathered you as a hen gathereth her chickens?" How many times does He say this? Why do you think he says it so many times? Why does He use this analogy?

3 Nephi 9:12-22 A Broken Heart and A Contrite Spirit

Use the footnotes and topical guide and other tools to find answers to the following questions if you don't have an answer. What does it mean to have a broken heart? Does it mean that you just got dumped? What is a contrite spirit? How is that a sacrifice? What sacrifice does the sacrifice of a broken heart and a contrite spirit replace?

3 Nephi 9:1-10 There was a Voice Heard

Who is speaking?
Search: In verse 10, it mentions King Jacob. We recently read about him. What do we know about him from earlier chapters? Use the footnotes and index if you don't remember. Why was his city destroyed? Do we know anything about these other cities that were destroyed? Use the footnotes and index to see if any of them are mentioned elsewhere in the Book of Mormon.

3 Nephi 8:19-25 There was not any light seen

Take everyone into a room with no window or other light source and turn the lights off for a minute or so. Is it scary? Now imagine that for hours. You can't light a candle; you can't turn on the lights; you can't light a fire; the sun does not rise. How would you feel? Why do you think this happened?

3 Nephi 7:1-2, 8:5-18 Great and Terrible Destruction

Let's finish the vicious circle diagram. Draw a third arrow from "pride" to "calamity and destruction". Draw a final arrow from "calamity and destruction" back to "humility and righteousness" to form a circle.

Chapters 7 and 8 describe 2 different types of destruction. What were they? (government was destroyed by the people; storms and earthquakes destroyed cities). Would either destruction have occurred if the people were righteous? Were any of the people righteous?

3 Nephi 6:7-17 They Had Enjoyed Peace But a Few Years

Here we see the first half of the vicious circle of the Book of Mormon. The people are righteous -> they are blessed -> they prosper -> many become prideful. We complete the circle in the first few verses of chapter 7.

Draw a diagram of this cycle. The diagram will be a circle containing the points of this vicious circle. Put "humility and righteousness" at the top center of the diagram. Put "blessings and prosperity" halfway down the right side of the diagram. Put "pride" at the bottom center of the diagram.　Put "calamity and destruction". Draw a line with an arrow from "humility and righteousness" to "blessings and prosperity". Draw another line with an arrow from "blessings and prosperity" to "pride".

What do you think comes after "pride?" Why? We will read about it and complete the diagrams when we read chapters 7 & 8.

3 Nephi 5:4-6 The Word is Preached to Prisoners

Draw a picture of the Nephites preaching to their prisoners. Adults and older children can write a few sentences on why you think this is or isn't an effective method of criminal justice.

Imagine if the criminal justice system today used this method of handling prisoners. Aside from a backlash about "separation of church and state," what do you think would happen? Would it be effective? Why or why not?

3 Nephi 4:4-7 Great and Terrible

Draw a picture of the fearsome Lamanites described in v7.

Picture yourself at the scene of battle, looking over these fearsome Lamanites. Would you be scared? Why or why not? Do you think the Nephites were scared? Why or why not? We'll find out next time if the Nephites were afraid or not.

3 Nephi 3:12-25 Cry unto the Lord for Strength

Why were the Nephites able to defeat the Gadianton Robbers?

Let the kids built a fortification with chairs, sheets, whatever they can find. Make sure the walls are taller than the children. Make the fort as wide as possible with the space and materials available. Put a couple of chairs in the middle of the 'fort'. Have one or two of the kids wad up some newspaper or scratch paper. After they finish building, divide up so that half are Nephitas and half are robbers. The Nephites should take half of the ammunition (wadded paper) into the fort. The robbers should remain outside. The Nephites can stand on the chairs inside the 'fort'. The robbers should stand on the ground/floor. Battle by throwing the wadded paper for 1-2 minutes. Don't go any longer than 2 minutes. Then switch - the Nephites can be the robbers and the robbers become the Nephites. Battle again - not more than 2 minutes.

Was it better to be in the fort or outside? Why or why not? Thanks to the inspiration of Lachoneus and Gidgiddonhi, the Nephites had an advantage in position. But that was not the reason they were strong. What made them strong (see v12 and 25)?

3 Nephi 5:10-13 I am a Disciple of Jesus Christ

Commit verse 13 to memory. You can do so by reading it and having everyone repeat it again and again. Or have everyone try to memorize it on their own and then test each person. Or read it together over and over a line at a time until you remember each line. This will probably take several days.

Who wrote these words? Why did he put them here? What do you feel when you read this testimony?

3 Nephi 4:7-14 The Nephites did Beat Them

Re-enact the events in these verses. Choose family members to fill these roles:

• Narrator(s) to read the verses
• Gidgiddoni
  
• Nephite(s) (if your family is small, Gidgiddoni can act as the only Nephite)
  
• Giddianhi
• Lamanite(s) (if your family is small, Giddanhi can act as the only Lamanite)
  

Allow family members 2 minutes to find some sort of costume - sword, shield, helmet, breastplate, red paint/makeup (for Lamanites). Re-enact the verses as the narrator reads them.

Why were the Lamanites happy when they saw the Nephites fall to the earth? Why did the Nephites fall to the earth? Were the Nephites able to defend themselves against the fearsome Lamanites? Why? What are some of the fearsome obstacles in your life? What can you learn from these Nephites?

3 Nephi 3:12-22 Gidgiddoni was a Great Prophet

Before reading, ask everyone how they would respond to Giddianhi's letter. If you still have the replies that you wrote last time, take a minute to discuss them. Lachoneus' response to Giddianhi is fascinating.

First of all, he didn't write a letter in reply - at least it doesn't say he did. What did he do first? And then what did he do - or what did he cause the people to do?

After reading these verses, ask each person how Lachoneus's response (v12) was different/similar to his/her own. Explain that having a different response is not wrong. What did the people propose? What did Gidgiddoni propose? Why did they go with Gidgiddoni's proposal? What would have happened if they had went with the people's proposal?

How do you think they will fare against the fearsome Gadianton robbers?

3 Nephi 3:1-11 I am Giddanhi

Why do you think Giddianhi wrote this letter to Lachoneus? Why didn't he just attack? If you were Lachoneus, how would you respond to this letter?

Write down how you would respond to Giddianhi. Would you prepare for war? Would you write a reply letter? If so, write your letter. Would you be kind or harsh?

3 Nephi 1:17-23

Allow everyone to draw a picture of these events at Christ birth.

3 Ne 1:4-16 A Day Set Apart by the Unbelievers

Have each person draw a different event described in these verses: (make hand/finger puppets?)

1. There begin to be greater signs and greater miracles (v4)
2. The unbelievers rejoice and say the time is past. They set a day to put the believers to death (v5-7,9)
3. Nephi is sorrowful and prays for the people (v10-12)
4. The Lord answers that he comes tomorrow (v12-14)
5. The sign is given; there is no darkness for a night (v15)
6. Many unbelievers fell to the earth (v16)
   

Then have someone tell the story using the pictures.

Helaman 16:1-8 He was Never Heard of More

In his 2008 First Presidency Christmas Devotional talk, President Eyring shared how his family re-enacted Samuel's prophesying of the Savior's coming:

Have someone stand on a chair as if they were on the city wall as they read these verses. When they finish, allow everyone else to toss wadded-up paper at them as if they were throwing stones. Remind them that Samuel cannot be hit.

Why were they unable to hit Samuel? Where did Samuel go? What do you think Samuel did after he fled from the Nephites?

Helaman 14:14-27 A Sign of His Death

Have each person draw a picture of event(s) at the time of Christ's death.

Were there any events listed that did not make it into any of your pictures?

For big kids, cross ref 3 Ne 8. Did Samuel get all of the events to occur at the time of Christ's death? If not, what did he miss?

Helaman 13:18-20 Whoso Shall Hide Treasures

Read v18-19 while the kids draw a picture of treasure. Why do you think that it's bad to hide up your treasure? The answer is in v20. Do these verses have application today? How? What are some of the treasures you have? What does it mean to hide them up unto the Lord?

Helaman 13:1-6 Samuel the Lamanite

Allow the reader to stand on a chair just as Samuel stood on the wall.

Why did Samuel get up on the city wall? Why didn't he just go into the city and preach? What message was he telling the people? This message was so important the Lord asked him to go back. Why was it so important?

Have you ever been rejected when you tried to teach someone? If the Lord commanded you to teach someone, and they did not accept you, what could you do to keep the Lord's commandment?

Helaman 11 Let There Be a Famine

Make a picture timeline. Draw a timeline on the whiteboard, or give each person a piece of paper with a year written on it. Have each person draw a picture of the events that year as they are read. You'll probably want to spread this over more than 1 day.

• 72: Contentions increase; wars occur (v1)
  
• 73: Nephi prays for famine instead of war (v3-4)
• 74: Famine continues (v5)
• 75: People begin to repent and Nephi prays to the Lord on their behalf for rain (v6-10)
• 76: Rains; crops thrive (v17)
• 77: People prosper; church spreads; peace (v20-21)
• 79: Some strife but people heed the prophetic warnings (v23)
• 80: A war commences by dissenters (v24)
• 80: Plundering and robbing (v25)
• 81: Destruction by the robbers cause some to remember the Lord (v33-34)
• 82-85: People forget the Lord (v36-37)
  

How quickly do the people forget the Lord? Why did the Lord allow the robbers to "carry on this work of destruction." Why did Nephi ask the Lord to chasten the people with famine rather than bloodshed? Did it work? Why or why not? Why did the people go back to their old ways so quickly?

Helaman 10: 1-12 Nephi is Given the Sealing Power

Search: What is "the sealing power" described in the introduction of this chapter? Use the footnotes, Bible Dictionary, Topical Guide and other references if necessary. Why was Nephi blessed? How would you feel if the Lord said this to you? What was Nephi doing when the Lord spoke to him? How much time do you spend pondering?

Helaman 9:25-41 I am an Honest Man

Continue the drama.

• Nephi. Read v25-30. Suggested costume: Nephite clothing: robe, headband, etc.
• Seantum, murderer. Read v31-36. Suggested costume: a toy weapon (make sure it's not dangerous).
  
• The 5 accused. Read v37-38. Suggested costume: Nephite clothing: robe, headband, etc.
• The people. Read v39-41. Suggested costume: Nephite clothing: robe, headband, etc.

Do you think there were any that did not believe Nephi after this miracle? Why or why not? Is it possible to hide anything from God? Why or why not? These people began to believe Nephi because a "sign" was given to them. Is that a good way to build faith? Why or why not? What builds faith better than a "sign"? Have each person name something (start with the youngest and work up - as items are named off, it will get harder).

Helaman 8:11-20 Where are the Five?

Continue acting out this chapter. There are fewer parts in these verses:

• Judges. Suggested costume: a crown, a sceptre, and a robe.
• The 5 accused. Suggested costume: Nephite clothing: robe, headband, etc.
• The people. Suggested costume: Nephite clothing: robe, headband, etc.

Why do you think the 5 who went to see the chief judge believed Nephi, but others didn't? What do you think is going to happen to Nephi?

Helaman 14:1-8 A Sign at the Time of His Coming

Draw a picture of the events at the time of the Savior's coming.

What would it be like to have a night without darkness? Was there a night without darkness in Jerusalem as well?

Helaman 8:27, 9:1-10 We Will Know...Whether this Man be a Prophet

Act out these verses as you read. Start with the murder of the chief judge which Nephi prophesies about in Hel 8:27. A part of the fun will be allowing the kids to make or find their own costume. You will need someone to play the parts of:

• Seezorum, chief judge. Read v9. Suggested costume: a crown, a sceptre, and a robe.
• Seantum, murderer. Read v7. Suggested costume: a toy weapon (make sure it's not dangerous).
  
• The 5 accused. Read v2,10. Suggested costume: Nephite clothing: robe, headband, etc.
• Servants. Read v1,3-4. Suggested costume: Nephite clothing: robe, headband, etc.
• The people. Read v5-6,8, Hel 8:27. Suggested costume: Nephite clothing: robe, headband, etc.

Fill in the parts as the size of your family allows. The 5 accused, the servants, and the people will probably actually have to be represented by 1 or 2 members of your family. Family members could play more than 1 part if they wish.

The suggested readings are organized so that when family members are not acting they will be reading (narrating) to keep everyone busy. There are 2 verses, v2 & 7, that are speaking parts. These 2 verses are to be read by the respective actors if possible. Adjust according to your family's readers and non-readers.

Did the 5 accused who were at the garden of Nephi actually commit the murder? Do you think they will be acquitted (set free)? What do you think they will say?

Helaman 8:25-28 Your Judge is Murdered

Search: See who can find the verse where the Savior said "Lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven" (it's 3 Ne 13:20 or Matt 6:20) These were the Savior's words, spoken AFTER Nephi passed away. Why did Nephi know the Savior's words before the Savior said them? Before the Savior was even born, in fact?

Play the game Clue if you have it - and if you can make time. Before you begin, discuss how a murder mystery game could relate to these verses. How did Nephi solve the mystery? How did he even know the chief judge was murdered?

Helaman 8:1-10 He Spake Plainly unto them

What is the issue that is causing such a great controversy? Are there controversies today similar to the controversy in these verses?
Find examples in the newspaper or the internet. How are they similar to the controversy at Nephi's time? Give the kids an opportunity to share their thoughts on the subject. Try not to judge; try to listen and understand.

Helaman 7:10-18 Nephi Prays on his Garden Tower

Allow the kids to build a "garden tower" using cushions, chairs, or whatever you have available. Ensure that is safe; not too high and sturdy enough to hold someone without falling. Then allow them to take turns sitting on it as they read these verses.

What would you do if someone was watching you while you were praying? What would you say to that person?

Helaman 7:1-10 Nephi Prays on His Garden Tower

Draw a picture of Nephi praying on his garden tower with a multitude gathering around.

Why was Nephi praying? Was he praying loudly? Have you ever prayed loud enough that people passing by on the street could hear you?

Helaman 6:35-41 Lamanite Righteousness

Play Gadianton Hide and Seek after reading these verses.

What do you think will happen to the Nephites because they support the Gadianton robbers? What will happen to the Lamanites because they seek out and destroy the robbers?
What did the Nephites do when they found a robber?
What happened to the robbers who were among the Nephites? Why?
What did the Lamanites do when they found a robber?
What happened to the robbers who were among the Lamanites? Why?

Gadianton Hide and Seek

The Nephites became increasingly wicked by supporting the Gadianton robbers and building them up. Some Nephites joined the Gadianton robbers. Meanwhile the Lamanites actively sought out and destroyed the Gadianton robbers from among them.

Pick specific boundaries for this game (your entire home, the main floor, your backyard, etc).

Game 1: Choose 1 person to be a Gadianton robber. Everyone else is a Nephite. The Nephites should count to 30 together while the robber hides. Then the Nephites can split up and find the robber. A Nephite who finds the robber becomes a robber and should quietly hide with the robber until everyone has found them. Play this once or twice.

Game 2: Choose 1 person to be a Lamanite. Everyone else is a Gadianton robber. The Lamanite should count to 50 while the robbers hide. Then the Lamanite can search for the robbers. When the Lamanite finds a robber, the robber becomes a Lamanite, and should search for the other robbers with the Lamanite(s) until everyone is found. Play this once or twice.

Helaman 6:21-30 Gadianton Robbers

Play Gadianton Hide and Seek after reading these verses.

Do we have any groups today that are comparable to the Gadianton robbers?
When friends are telling unkind or bad jokes and you laugh or tell a joke yourself, how is that like the Nephites at this particular time? What could you do or say to be like the Lamanites?
Why was it easier for the Gadianton robbers to prosper among the Nephites at this time?

Helaman 6 The Economy of the Book of Mormon

The formula of the economy in the Book of Mormon is simple. When the people follow the principles of righteousness, they prosper. When they ignore those principles, the economy slumps. It is the same today.

This chapter is a great example. Draw a timeline of this chapter. Put a hash mark for each verse. Make a dot above the timeline when the people prosper. Make a dot below the line when they become more wicked and prideful. Do you see a pattern in this chapter?

Have each person find an example of this in the Book of Mormon and in the news. Do you see this same pattern throughout the Book of Mormon? What about in your life?

Helaman 5:35-52 Encircled by Fire

Draw a picture of the events in these verses.

Helaman 5:27-34 A Voice is Heard

Draw a picture of the multitude which had gathered at the prison. Have each person draw their own picture on a piece of paper, or have each person draw different parts of the picture on a whiteboard. Ask everyone to listen carefully so he doesn't miss details such as the cloud of darkness, the voice from heaven, and the prison walls shaking.

What did the voice say? What kind of voice was it? Why were they afraid?

Helaman 5:20-26 Nephi and Lehi Cast Into Prison

Draw a picture of Nephi and Lehi in prison, encircled about as if by fire, and yet not burned.

Did Lehi and Nephi suffer while they were in prison? It was the same with Ammon and his brethren and Joseph and Hyrum Smith. Lehi and his family suffered wandering in the wilderness for many years before finally being led to the promised land? Why does the Lord allow his faithful servants to suffer? How can they be grateful to God when He allows them to suffer? If you were thrown in prison for days without food because of your faith, what would you do in prison? What would you think about a God who allows you to suffer?

Mosiah 13:16-19 Keep the Sabbath Day Holy

search: Look up Sabbath day in the Topical Guide. Have the kids find scriptures that list some things that the Savior said were ok on the Sabbath. Why are these activities good to do on the Sabbath?

Mosiah 13:16-19 Keep the Sabbath Day Holy

Have each of the kids bring one thing that represents an activity that is good to do on the Sabbath and one thing that represents an activity that is not good to do on the Sabbath. For example, one of the kids might bring a baseball and the scriptures. Another might bring a pair of videos: The Testaments and Harry Potter. Some families may choose not to watch movies such as Harry Potter on Sunday; others may decide that it is ok. This a good opportunity to discuss these things with the kids so both parents and kids know what is expected.

What day is the Sabbath? What do these verses say we should do on the Sabbath? What do they say we shouldn't do? What are other good things to do on the Sabbath? What are other things we should avoid on the Sabbath?

Why don't we play sports on Sunday? Are sports bad? If not, why do we avoid them on Sunday? Is it ok to take a walk? Why? Why don't we shop on Sunday? Is there some music that we should avoid on Sunday? Why? What are other good activities to do on the Sabbath?

Helaman 5:13-19 Nephi and Lehi Preach with Power

Draw a picture of Lehi and Nephi preaching the Gospel. How many Lamanites were baptized because they listened to the words of Lehi and Nephi? Was this the same Lehi and Nephi that left Jerusalem, built a boat, and journeyed to the promised land? How were this Nephi and Lehi related? Whose sons were they (v13)? Did they only preach to the Lamanites? Who else did they preach to?

Mosiah 13:21-24 Ten Commandments (5-10)

Finish writing your list of the ten commandments today. Did you get all ten? If not, go back and find any that you missed in verses 12-24 and chapter 12 verses 35-36. One of the commandments is repeated in both chapters.

Why did the Lord say "Thou shalt not kill," rather than "Thou shalt not murder," or "Thou shalt not kill other human beings?" Did He intend this commandment to refer only to killing other people? Or could it include other living things as well?

What does it mean to bear false witness? Why do you think he didn't just say "Thou shalt not lie?" Why is it important to be honest? What happens when you lie? How do other people feel about you when you lie?

What does covet mean? Why is this bad? Can you be happy if you are always wanting what someone else has? Is coveting a sign of pride? What is pride?

Mosiah 13:20 Honor Thy Father and Mother

What does it mean to "honor" your father and mother? Why will that help you live longer? Of all of the commandments the Lord could have given to Israel, why did the Lord consider this commandment important enough to include in the Ten Commandments?

Don't forget to add this to the list of 10 commandments we are making.

Alma 1:2-15 Nehor

Draw a picture of Nehor and Gideon. Ask everyone to listen carefully so they know how to draw these 2 men.

What's wrong with receiving money to preach the Gospel? What's wrong with preaching that the Lord will redeem everyone, regardless of what you do during your life?

Big Kids: What are priestcrafts (see the verses in the footnotes)?

Mosiah 13:12-19 Taking the Lord's Name in Vain; The Sabbath

Continue to list the 10 commandments on a whiteboard or paper as you read these verses. There are 4 so far. Did you get them all? Does the taking the Lord's name in vain refer only to saying "Oh my God?"

Mosiah 12:33-37 No Other God Before Me

Abinadi expounds the ten commandments over the next few chapters. As you read over the next few days, have your kids pick out the commandments and keep a running list on the whiteboard. See if they can get all 10 of them.

How does each of the ten commandments apply to us? What specific things can we do to keep the 10 commandments?

What are other gods? Certainly this includes gods of other religions and cultures, but can other things such as cars or money or television or recreation become our gods? Name some of the things that people make their gods. How can you avoid putting these other things before the Lord?

Helaman 5:12 Sure Foundation

Memorize: Commit this scripture mastery verse to memory. Don't expect to do it in one day.

What is a foundation? What other things is it possible to build our foundation on? What if we don't build our foundation on Christ? What happens if we do?

Helaman 5:12 Build Your Foundation on the Rock

Little Ones: Sing "The Wise Man Built his House upon the Rock". Who is "the Rock?" Why is He the Rock?

Big Kids: Search: Find the parable of the wise man and the foolish man in the new testament. What does it mean to build our house on the sand? What does it mean to build our house on the rock?

Helaman 4:23-26 They Had Become Weak

Search: In v21-22 "they began to remember the prophecies of Alma, and also the words of Mosiah". Have each person find one of the prophecies of Alma or the words of Mosiah and share it. Is it possible that our laws could become corrupted like the Nephites? How? Are there any laws now that are corrupted?

Helaman 4:19-22 They Began to Remember

Brainstorm: As a family, on a piece of paper or a whiteboard, list all of the things they were doing that could have caused them to become weak. It lists many of them earlier in this chapter, but see if your family can come up with them on your own. Before you finish, call on any person specifically that has not contributed. Then list all of the things we can do to become strong.

Helaman 4:14-16 Moronihah Did Preach

Review: What happened to the Nephites in the previous verses?

What did Moronihah, Nephi, and Lehi do to help the Nephites regain some of their losses? How can we avoid these things that caused the Nephites so much grief? What is pride? Have someone look it up in the dictionary or at dictionary.com

Helaman 4:8-13 Beware of Pride

Read President Benson's famous "Beware of Pride" discourse and have each person take notes to answer these questions:

• How do President Benson's words apply to the Nephites in these verses?


• What is enmity? Look it up in the dictionary or at dictionary.com if necessary. What are examples of pride?
• How do we overcome it?

Helaman 4:8-13 It was Because of Pride

Family Fued: Top 17 answers on the board. According to these verses, what were the causes of the great slaughter among the Nephites?

Mosiah 3:20-31,35 Great Prosperity in the Church

Search: As you read, ask the children to search for the answer to these questions:

What was the cause of the great prosperity (v27)? How can we experience the same prosperity?

Helaman 3:13-17 Many Records Kept

Have each person write down on a piece of paper what he thinks was contained in the records mentioned in these verses. It could be a story of the heroics of an individual, or a history of the people as a whole. Encourage them to use their imagination. Little ones can draw a picture of something they think might be written in these records. Have each person share what they have written.

Do we really know what's on these records? Will we? When? Why did they keep records?

Helaman 3:3-11 Land Northward

Draw a picture of what the houses looked like in the land northward.

Why did they build them from cement instead of wood?

Helaman 2 Gadianton

Play Stealth. Choose someone to be "it". This person is the chief judge, Helaman. Everyone else plays the part of Kishkumen, trying to be the first to get to the chief judge.

What happens to Kishkumen? What does this chapter say will cause the destruction of the Nephites? How do you think this can lead to their destruction?

Stealth (Red Light, Green Light)

This is the well-known game Red Light, Green Light with one small variation. Choose someone to be "it". This person should sit on a chair facing the wall at one side of the room. Everyone else should line up at the wall on the other side of the room. The object is to be the first person to reach the person who is it without being detected.

In normal Red Light, Green Light play, the players can only move when the player who is "it" turns away from everyone else and says "Green Light". When the player who is "it" turns back to face everyone else and says "Red Light", if she spots anyone who is moving, that person goes back to the starting line.

In our variation, "it" never turns around to face everyone. Instead of moving on "green light", players may move when "it" is snoring, indicating "it" is asleep. When "it" stops snoring (but does not turn around to face everyone), the players must stop. The players should judge themselves and each other. If any player continues moving after "it" wakes up (stops snoring), that player should return to the start line. Choose one of the older players to be the "chief judge" to settle any disputes and avoid any argument.

The first person to reach "it" becomes the new "it" and everyone should start over. Play 2 or 3 times.

Helaman 1:25-33 Moronihah Takes Back Zarahemla

Give the kids a chance to "do battle" after you read these verses. Let them wrestle or "swordfight" for a few minutes. If they do "swordfight", make sure they choose soft weapons so that they do not have the potential to hurt each other. Older children may rather do battle with a game such as chess - although that will take a long time.

What mistake did the Lamaites make? Why did the Lamanites attack the Nephites? Why did the Nephites fight?

Helaman 1:14,15,18-22

Draw pictures to tell the story of the march of the Lamanite army. Someone could draw a picture of Coriantumr gathering a great Lamanite army. Someone else could draw a picture of them marching through the gates of Zarahemla. Someone else could draw a picture of them chasing down Pacumeni, the chief judge. Someone else could draw a map of their march.

After the pictures are drawn, have each person, in order, show his picture and explain it in his own words. This may take 2 or 3 days to complete.

Helaman 1:11-13 Kishkumen

What does the Book of Mormon call it when a band of people takes an oath not to reveal their works of darkness? Do we have secret combinations in the latter days?